10.17.2011

Entailing: Epiphany

When it comes down to it, all we can do is accept what is. All you can do is smile about what you have and cherish the live that's been given to us.

I've learned that just because one person doesn't want you, doesn't mean no body does. 
I've learned  that sometimes we end up caring for people who simply don't care back.
I've learned that sometimes it really isn't me, but you.

I've learned that even on the coldest mornings, there can be warmth.

I've learned that in the hardest moments, there are good friends to pick you up.
I've learned that even best friends get in fights, but only the real ones forgive each other.

I've learned that even among the most broken of things, there can be healing.

I've learned that drinking your problems away, just might help for a little while.

I've learned that living paycheck to paycheck is ok, sometimes.

I've learned that very few people put other people's happiness above their own.

I've learned that I can't control my feelings towards someone, and neither can anyone else.

I've learned that as long as you give your everything, you can at least say you tried.

I've learned that there is nothing better than surrounding yourself with good people.

I've learned that I'd rather get around now, than be the 40 year old woman who cheats on her husband.

I've learned that even when the clouds loom, the sun is still there, waiting with patience.

I've learned that if you don't have confidence in yourself, neither will other people.

I've learned that it does matter what people think about you, but it matters more about what you think about yourself.

I've learned that if you take things one day at a time, the hardships in life seems manageable.

I've learned that complimenting other people makes you a happier person.

I've learned that red bull contains bull testosterone, and that's gross.

I've learned that "cover songs" are just like our perspectives in life: you might not like something, til you hear/look at it in a different way.

I've learned that no matter how many cute outfits you buy, or how many new hair cuts you get, the pain doesn't stay away- but it helps.

I've learned that standing up for yourself might make you a bitch- Ok, then I'm a bitch.

I've learned that when someone says, "I just want to be friends", they actually don't.
I've learned that there are a thousand nice ways to say something mean, but I'm not dumb. I get it.

I've learned that no matter what, we have to deal with the things we are given. There is no getting around them, no avoiding them. Just dealing with them. Stop wasting your time complaining about them; take a deep breath, and figure out how to cope.

Open your eyes to the world, and cry for those who are truly suffering- not our own selfish issues.

Life is beautiful- don't drown it in ugly problems.

The sun doesn't stop shining and the world doesn't stop spinning, so we shouldn't stop living.

Cheers; to moving forward.